Why You Should Budget More and Get A Great Wedding DJ

Let’s start by asking yourself how long you expect the following items to entertain your guests:
Your cake
Your flowers
Your centerpieces
Your decorations
Your veggie tray
Your dinner
Your chair covers
As you can see although these items are all important, none of them are going to entertain your guests for very long.
Most brides wait until the end of their budget to hire their DJ without consideration of the importance that he/she has to the success of your wedding celebration.
Your wedding DJ is actually about 85% responsible for the success of your wedding celebration! Say that out loud to yourself a couple of times before you hire your DJ. If you hire the wrong DJ you will be managing your DJ instead of relaxing and enjoying yourselves with your friends and family!
Your wedding DJ is not supposed to be just someone that shows up and pushes the play button and music comes on! You can hire one like that if you want to, but don’t be surprised if your wedding shows up on Youtube as one of those disaster weddings that you probably heard about.
Your DJ is the one who is supposed to run your wedding reception starting as soon as your ceremony is over until the end of your last dance. He/she is your “day of” coordinator that is the key person between the venue staff and your wedding photographer. He/she is the one that is supposed to be there for you and keep everything rolling on the timeline that you set up. He/she is there for the total entertainment package, which goes far beyond just playing music. Here’s a frightening though for you… the DJ you hire will be alone with your guests for about 45 minutes until you arrive. They will be there representing YOU!

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DAY OF WEDDING CHECK LIST FOR THE BRIDE

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Based on our extensive experience doing over 11,000 weddings and events we have created a check list for you for the day of your wedding. Highlight and print out the list below and get someone to help you with this. Once you have each item ready to load check it off… when you load it in the car simply check it off again. If you use this list you will not be one of those brides that has to say “OMG I forgot my…”

READY LOADED ITEM
____ ____ WEDDING DRESS / TAGS ALREADY CUT OFF AND REBAGGED
____ ____ UNDERGARMENTS/ BRA/PANTIES/STOCKINGS/GARTER NO TAGS
____ ____ WEDDING SHOES/ JEWELRY
____ ____ WEDDING VEIL
____ ____ MAKE-UP-/HAIR SPRAY/PERFUME
____ ____ CHANGE OF CLOTHES
____ ____ EXTRA PAIR OF COMFORTABLE SHOES
____ ____ MARRIAGE LICENSE
____ ____ VOWS
____ ____ WEDDING RINGS
____ ____ BOUQUET
____ ____ CENTERPIECES / DECORATIONS
____ ____ GUEST BOOK
____ ____ PHOTOS TO DISPLAY
____ ____ MEDICATIONS
____ ____ WATER
____ ____ BRIDESMAID DRESSES
____ ____ FLOWER GIRL DRESSES/ BASKET / ROSE PEDALS
____ ____ SHOES
____ ____ RING BEARER TUX/SHOES/SOCKS/RING PILLOW
____ ____ BOUTONNIERES (WHO IS PINNING BOUTONNIERES) SAFETY PINS
____ ____ BRIDESMAIDS BOUQUETS
____ ____ GROOM’S TUX/TIE/SOCKS/SHOES
____ ____ GROOMSMEN TUXES/TIES/SHOES
____ ____ IMPORTANT PHONE NUMBERS/ VENDORS/DJ/PHOTOGRAPHER
____ ____ CELL PHONE
____ ____ CHAMPAGNE/ WHO IS IN CHARGE
____ ____ CHAMPAGNE GLASSES/ WHO IS IN CHARGE
____ ____ CAKE CUTTING SET/ WHO IS IN CHARGE
____ ____ BUBBLES/ WHO IS IN CHARGE
____ ____ UMBRELLA/ CHECK THE WEATHER
____ ____ PURSE/GUM/ BREATH MINTS/PEPTO/ASPIRIN/ TISSUES
____ ____ CREDIT/DEBIT CARD
____ ____ MONEY FOR VENDORS (PAYMENT AND TIPS)
____ ____ VENDOR CONTRACTS
____ ____ DISPOSABLE CAMERAS?
____ ____ WISHING WELL/ CARD BOX
____ ____ GLASSES/ CONTACTS
____ ____ SAND OR CANDLE CEREMONY ITEMS
____ ____ DIRECTIONS
____ ____ KEY TO VENUE
____ ____ SEATING CHART OR NAME TAGS/WHO IS IN CHARGE
____ ____ PERSONAL HYGIENE
____ ____ FEED AND WATER ANIMALS


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Creative wedding photography ideas by A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER

DSC07891 Photographer in photo is Steve Watts expert photographer for A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER in the Tampa Bay area Everything I write comes from professional experience. I write to save you wedding time, which will save you wedding money to help you succeed in your wedding budget. Creative Wedding Photography Ideas Do you think of just the traditional family shots, first kiss, first dance and the wedding cake etc. when it comes to your wedding photos? If so, maybe it’s time to use creative thinking and alternatives to ordinary wedding photography. After all, if a wedding is supposed to be as unique as the couple committing their lives to one another, then why should their wedding photos be any different? Photos are the way to keep the memories of that special day exciting year after year. How do you do that? By coordinating and having an open discussion with your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER to create that unique style you have always dreamed of. For example, instead of having everyone standing up in front of your wedding arch talk to your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER to get ideas. You may be very surprised how helpful your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER will be at bringing forth the creative juices from your mind into gorgeous and unique photos. Tips Make a photo planner (we supply one to all of our clients). A photo planner will insure that your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER will get all your traditional photos along with fun, romantic, and serious poses. Share a copy of the planner with your photographer. Talk to your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER about the photos taken during the ceremony.You may want to add something or your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER may highlight something you have not thought about. Where would you like your photos taken after the ceremony? Whether in a church, a lavish venue, or a picnic style wedding, your WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER can offer creative location ideas for beautiful photos. Wishing you all a beautiful eternity! A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER Go to National Wedding Photography for great prices on exceptional wedding photography!

How to entertain children at a wedding by ABETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER

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With family members scattered around the country weddings are precious due the fact it is so difficult to get all your family members under one roof. A family WEDDING also usually means children.  I have learned a few tips in my many years as a WEDDING photographer on how to entertain young children.

TIPS HOW TO ENTERTAIN CHILDREN

1. If you have young children attending your wedding please consider hiring a baby sitter or nanny. This will allow the parents to relax and really enjoy your wedding. Don’t be surprised if the parents are more than willing to pitch in for the cost for a good, reliable sitter or nanny.

2. Have tables set up just for the children with snacks using plastic plates and plastic wear. Have the tables in the back and have the parents’ tables next to them

3. Have small aprons, crayons and paper, washable paint, Play-Doh, games, bean bag toss for example. A good sitter or nanny will be able to keep them busy if she has the right tools.

4. Allow the children to be a part of the wedding reception by letting them to speak in the DJ’s microphone before or after the toast or all sing a song to the bride and groom.

5. When it comes to the wedding cake, have cupcakes and different toppings for the kids. Allow them to decorate their own cupcake.

6. Have a photo area set up with funky hats, sunglasses, feathered boas, etc. And have time set aside for the WEDDING photographer to capture their photos (during dinner is usually a good time as most children will eat when they are hungry)

7. Have the parents bring pillows and blankets because usually by the end of the night you will have sleepy- heads in a corner as the parents dance the night away.

8. Allow teen children to have their own table as well as well. Let them choose some of the music, but make sure the DJ knows to play music without explicit language.

9. Be sure to take the the opportunity for generation photos. For example, Great-grandmother, Grandmother, Mother, Daughter and Granddaughter. These photos are priceless.

Best wishes for eternity

A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER

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Photos before the wedding By A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER

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The hours before your wedding will hold some very special moments that you will definitely want consider adding to your photo planner.
This occasion can consist of you and your bridal party having your hair and make-up done before the WEDDING. There is laughter and smiles that you will want photographed along with pictures of your garter, shoes, dress, and flowers. A professional WEDDING photographer will know how to capture all the little details such as the pattern of your wedding dress with maybe a hint of your garter and your WEDDING bouquet. Photos like this you can have made into stationary and framed on your wall to help you remember this precious day you’re wedding dress may be preserved or handed down so you will want to have photos to help you remember the fine details of your WEDDING day.
This is also a wonderful time to capture boudoir photos. This is when you have your undergarments on with your garter right before you put on your wedding dress. You lie on a bed, or relax in a chair while you are tastefully covered with fabric or a sheet. This is where we get the sexy, but tasteful photos for you to give to your future husband as a gift, plus it is a gift to yourself. A professional WEDDING photographer will capture your make up, hair, nails and will know how to capture all your best features.
If you read my other blogs I always recommend that all the bridesmaids are completely ready before you. The reason for this is so they can help you get ready while the photographer captures those photos of them along with your mother, sisters and aunts( if applicable) helping you put on your WEDDING dress. The most heartfelt photo is your mother or someone very dear places the final detail the … the WEDDING veil. These are all moments you will treasure in priceless professional photos.
Once you are completely dressed and ready to walk down the aisle the professional photographer will capture photos of:
you and your bridal party
you and your Mother
you and your sisters
you and your best friend
Now it is time for professional WEDDING photos of just you in your complete WEDDING attire. The professional WEDDING photographer will capture different angles and will need at least 10 minutes of just you. The last photo should be you and your father or whoever will be giving you away.
Note* a professional WEDDING photographer will be able to capture all these memories without being intrusive. You will have gone over your photo planner together sometime before your wedding and have a perfect understanding of your dream WEDDING photos.
Best wishes for eternity
A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER
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with A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER
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Wedding cake by A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER

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I write from my many years as a wedding photographer to save you time, time will save you money to fit your WEDDING budget
Wedding cake… to smush or not to smush. It is something important that you may want to talk about before your wedding so there are no annulments.
The couple in the photo was laughing before and after the photo. I just captured this classic look with luck on my part.
Traditionally the cake cutting ceremony is a symbol of your union. You both will stand side by side
and with both hands you will slice a piece out of the bottom layer (hold a pose for the photographer) placing it onto a plate, then using your fingers to feed each other.

When it comes to shopping for a wedding cake the price can be very shocking so you really need to put your priorities in order as far as your wedding budget goes. I will share a few tips I have learned to save money on wedding cakes.
• Frosting is cheaper than fondant.
• A small wedding cake for two surrounded by mountains of cupcakes is very acceptable and a lot less expensive.
• You can have the bottom cake be the real McCoy and the top made of Styrofoam. Once you cut the bottom layer and the cake cutting tradition is completed the servers whisk away the fake cake back to the kitchen where sheet cakes are cut and served. No one knows the difference.
• Traditionally the top layer of the cake is saved and frozen in heavy duty freezer bags for your first 1 year WEDDING anniversary. You may want to keep that in mind when you try to figure how big of a cake you need, or you can order a copy cat cake for the following year. (cake frozen for a year is horrible!)
• Keep in mind that a month after your wedding nobody is going to remember your cake. All they are going to remember is you cutting the cake.

Best wishes for eternity
A BETTER DJ AND PHOTOGRAPHER
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AFFORDABLE BUDGET WEDDING PACKAGE

First off, the term “budget” is definitely a point of view. “Affordable” to a wealthy person may be totally unreachable for most people while “budget” may be undesirable for a wealthy person.

So how does a middle class person find an affordable wedding package that fits in their budget without sacrificing quality or risking total failure? How does a wealthy person obtain the perfect wedding package without spending more than they need to?

The answer is really quite simple… bundle your services!

The internet gives us all the opportunity to shop as much as we want to… but unfortunately life itself does not usually yield the time to do a proper job of it. Lack of experience at selecting a wedding DJ, affordable wedding photographer, and excellent videographer leads many people to making poor decisions based on 1st impressions, shortage of time, or costs.

The good news is that there are some very reputable companies that do all the legwork for you. They will select the perfect vendors for you based on your vision of your ultimate wedding celebration! They’ve already done the searching, verified references, checked BBB reports, looked at portfolios, discussed equipment, evaluated personalities, and most importantly, they know exactly what the right questions to ask are!

By combing multiple vendors under 1 overhead they are able to not only provide excellent talent, they can also offer much better prices that you can get hiring these professionals direct and individually. Don’t get me wrong, there are some BAD multiple operator companies out there so be sure and check out their reviews before you select one to provide the staff for your special day. Researching and selecting the right company will take far less of your time than selecting the individuals yourself, and you will be much happier with the results than if you selected the vendors yourself. How much experience do you have searching for a wedding DJ, affordable wedding photographer, and a wedding videographer? Why not find a professional to do it all for you?

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